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Does he like me?
So there is this guy at my work. At first I didn’t think much of him, just a coworker, but then I got invited to one of his get togethers, and there I started to see what a great guy he is. We all had a lot of fun, his mother loved me and his friends said that he really likes me too. At the same time my guy barely talks to me. I have cut him looking at me a few times, but he never texts me or calls me. Since then we have hang out a few times and had a lot of fun yet he never makes the first move. How do I get him to take control and make the first move?
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By the sounds of it he is really shy. Make the first move. Guys like that. He is most likely scared of being denied. So good luck make the firast move. xoxoxox
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Why don't you make the first move?
Look, guys are target directed. That means that he wasn't going to hang out with you unless he had some kind of designs on getting with you. He also isn't going to think you're a slut or something if you take the initiative. So relax, ask him if he wants to take your relationship to a higher level and enjoy.
There is one other thing about this: by having to make the advance you will understand better what guys go through in terms of fear of rejection. So just go for it. You don't get unless you ask.
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Well since you two have been hanging out and him and you both seem to be having a good time id say he likes you but probably wants to get to know you properly before making a move so dont worry when hes ready he will just be patient and enjoy the time you two spend together :)
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