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how to give a hickey
I am 18 years old and my guy really wants me to give him a hickey. His friend says its to show others he's mine and concidering he has already cheated on me once, I really want to do it, but I am incapable of giving a hickey. I have tried over and over on my arm but I cant do it. It only apprears as a small red mark that goes away in a matter of seconds. What can I do to give him a hickey?
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If he has already cheated on you - get rid of him! Hardly worth it!
The key to making a hickey appear as more than just a small red mark though is to suck REALLY hard for as long as possible. Try literally to pull his skin off his neck and into your mouth. If that doesn't work, then just do what you're doing but do it several times in a row. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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Tell your boyfriend to grow up. Hickeys are for junior high schoolers.
Btw, when you suck some of the skin on his neck into your mouth and between your teeth, it does feel really good, but it will also definitely leave a mark, especially if you take some time sucking on it.
The weird thing is it is like he wants to be owned. I wonder if he has submissive tendencies and wants you to dominate him? He probably wouldn't admit it, but you ought to ask him if he's ever thought of wanting to be tied up. It sounds like he may have.
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If your boyfriend needs you to suck his neck to show people he's 'yours' then I think you probably need to re-evaluate the relationship. On top of that, hickeys look sleazy and immature. But that's just my opinion.
If you're really that keen on the idea, take a look here for tips:
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its just like sucking a lollipop. you're basically just sucking skin. This causes the blood vessels to break and it leaves a red mark where the blood vessels were broken. you kinda have to use your teeth to grip onto the skin. and then once the skin is in your mouth, you just suck onto it. make sure you breathe when you do it. It's really not that hard. watch a youtube video if you're confused.
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There are so many things wrong with this situation, I don't even know where to begin. First, don't you think it's a little weird that he wants a hickey? I mean, he's not in high school anymore? Even if he is a senior, I work with seniors everyday and they're more mature than that. What's even weirder is his reasoning behind it. He wants to show others that he's yours? Well if you think about it, ANYONE can give another person a hickey...so unless you suck your name onto his skin...there is no point!
Last but not least, and certainly the most important is the fact that you want to do it because he's cheated on you before. Honey, if he leaves you for not giving him a hickey just be glad the relationship is over.
Stop practicing and tell him that you're eighteen, not twelve!
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