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why do i get angry
im 27 years old mother of 2 kids why do i get angry
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Well you probably do not have the tools to deal with your kids. It's funny, you go to school your whole life, yet there are no junior high or high school classes on parenting or maintaining good credit/money management. Your whole adult life is practically dictated by these things, yet you have no idea what to do when you get out there.
Children are hard to deal with if you have no idea what is motivating their behavior. There are some great courses online that teachers take called CARE courses. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) Each one is like $50 or so, and it's just a book with a test in the end. They teach you about discipline and child psychology, and anything kids that you might need to learn. They books are really easy to understand, and quick to read.
If that's too expensive, check out these classes and websites that are free, or you only have to pay if you want a certificate:
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You will find that you will have endless patience for your children once you realize that they are not "being bad," or "being smart," and that they look for your guidance so much. They are truly little miracles. Sometimes they just do not have the tools to express themselves.
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probably because you are 27 and have 2 kids??? You are very young to have two kids, and therefore it might frustrate you.
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I don't have the training required to tell you why you hit your kids in the manner you describe as to when you do so. I don't feel any of us have the training to answer you. What I see in your question is you have some anger management and some control issues you need to get some help with before you hurt your children.
Disciplining your children is one thing. Hitting your children is another. Their is a very fine line between a spanking and child abuse. Hitting with a closed fist, even in a discipline situation is child abuse. Hitting your child because you are angry is child abuse.
Should a teacher, doctor or other adult see marks on your child that are not explainable you could be in serious trouble. You need to get help; you need anger management therapy. Talk to your family doctor about this and then follow your doctors advise.
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