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Why does he like to bother me all the time?
I met a guy at work and the first day I met him he started teasing me in a playful way making laugh. I found it kinda weird someone who didn't know me that well but felt so comfortable teasing me right away. He said he likes teasing me but he don't know why. Now whenever we see each other he bothers me and does stuff to make me laugh. He puts his headphones in my ears and plays songs for me on his ipod and sings funny and dances funny to make me laugh. One time he saw me talk to another guy and pretended to act like he was jealous and kept interrupting the conversation. The other guy looked at him like he was crazy. I never met someone who that got so comfortable around me so fast before. I think he likes me but he hasn't said anything. What could it be?
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I think he sounds pretty funny, and that he likes you. I wish I knew him or someone like him, you just don't find people with character like that these days. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't go to all the trouble of trying to impress you. I don't know if I think he is shy. He sounds kind of confident to me, to just start joking around with you right when you meet him.
If you like him, you should flirt back or tease him back and see how he reacts.
Good luck!
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If I were you I'd be wary. This sounds like passive aggressive behavior. That could mean he's really interested in you but to shy to actually say so, or it could mean that he's hiding a desire to do you harm. It's very natural for a guy to try to grab a lady's attention, but acting as you describe in a work environment seems to be totally improper and immature. The fact that he's touching you makes me believe that 'shy' is not the answer.
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I think we need more people like him in this world. If there were more people like him the world would be a happier place and maybe we would have less fights.
Admittedly he is a little strange when viewed against the rest of us. For some reason he took an immediate liking to you. Fact is good natured teasing is only done to people we like. Good natured teasing takes a lot more work than hateful or hurtful teasing so he would not put the effort in if he didn't like you.
As to saying he likes you; he may be covering up his shyness with his teasing. That or he is looking for some type of sign from you that you like him. If you like him and want to get to know him better why not make the first move yourself and ask him out for drinks, if your old enough, or coffee after work one night.
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