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Does he like me? :)


Question Posted Thursday May 19 2011, 12:19 am

there\'s this guy who asked me to do something for him for work. we talked for like 2 hours the first night the next day he texted saying he wanted something fixed so i went back and we talked again for another hour. that was almost 2 weeks ago now that we did that. he texted me like 3 other times he didn\'t say much but were in the same math class so he texted one day saying ur not in class today..working from home :p so i texted back and was like yeah and we texted for like 10mins or so. after that he didn\'t text for like 3 or 4 days then in class when i was there he was like your here today and sat beside me..maybe because his friends were close by? :s but a day later today he texted and was like u still at the mall? and wanted a ride home so i did then we talked a little about star wars of allthings! so does he like me ? i thought so but i dont know.. how should i talk to him i wanna be atleast friends :)

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sweeethoney answered Thursday May 19 2011, 9:57 am:
honestly, it almost seems like hes using you. From this question, he talks to you mostly when he wants something. I could be wrong but just keep an eye out for that.

nothing is really screaming to me that he likes you from what you posted. If im wrong about him using you, it seems like he is just being friendly. just keep it cool, be his friend. Dont text him first, I know its tempting. But if he keeps texting you then thats a good sign. Sorry thats really all I can give you

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VoiceofReason answered Thursday May 19 2011, 2:13 am:
Guys are target oriented. That means that whatever they do they are looking for some result from it. By spending so much time on you he is definitely showing interest because guys are not going to waste time on women they know they can't get or don't want.

By the way, the three or four day gap is either because he was just too busy or he had exhausted things to say to you and needed to reload.

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xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Thursday May 19 2011, 2:10 am:
Pretty much sounds like he does.

He wasn't texting you for a few days here and then because you weren't texting him first! He was probably waiting for you to send him a random text, and then finally texted you back when nothing was happening.

Talk to him like you would anyone. Just be nice, smile, ask how he is, what he was up to on the weekend or whatever. Maybe bring up something to start a conversation, which can be anything. Can be about your maths class, family, mutual friends, sports, hobbies... etc.

Even just texting him out of nowhere saying, "Hey :) How are you?" will get a conversation started. And if he likes you, he's going to keep asking you questions back to keep you talking to him.

The more you talk, the better friends you become :)

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