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I have a bf,but I got mad in front of him.does he like me still or not? I love my bf,but i got to mad in front of him.what can i do?SOS!! =(
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Yeah, you should never, ever make a scene in public when you are with your guy. Men hate that and it makes you look like a crazy bitch. As you can imagine, he probably lost a lot of respect for you.
The main thing you want to do is be adult about this. Get together with him and then sit down and explain calmly what your grievance is. Don't expect him to read your mind. Guys are dumb when it comes to how women think. Be able to explain in precise terms what is going on in your head without putting a guilt trip on your boyfriend. Tell him that you need to have these discussions on occasion in order to feel a deeper connection in the relationship in order to ensure that he really understands you.
The other thing you have to realize is that guys want to feel in control. They have a need to feel dominant. When they hear the words, "we need to talk," the first reaction many guys have is, "she is trying to be the dominant one in the relationship" and that makes you a pain in the ass. So find a way to get what you want while not infringing on his feelings as a man. ]
say you're sorry and you'll control your temper next time. Tell him you love him so much and just speak from your heart. ]
well everyone gets mad at some point.
Although this kind of behaviour isn't attractive to guys, if its just once or twice then he'll forget about it :) ]
Just because you got mad at him infront of him should not give him any reason to doubt you or your relationship what so ever. And he hes no right to judge you because of you being mad. He should infact like you. So don't doubt it.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine* ]
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