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I have a boyfriend, but I think I'm falling for my ex again.


Question Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 4:52 pm

Me and my current boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and things are good. But recently I've been talking to my ex a lot and we even ended up kissing. I think I'm starting to fall for him again. What should I do?

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dshannon420 answered Monday April 4 2011, 9:35 am:
Your problem is exclusivity. You want your cake and............... So I recommend announcing that you enjoy both of their company and destroy the label BOYFRIEND. If they are both on equal grounds, they will compete for you. May the victor enjoy the spoils, or let them accept that you see them both. This is not unusual outside of marriage and does not make you a slut.

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lightoftruth923 answered Monday April 4 2011, 12:51 am:
If you still have feelings for your ex, you shouldn't be with your boyfriend. If you still want to be with your boyfriend after all this, then don't talk to your ex no matter how much you want to.
Figure out which you want more.
If you're just gonna be thinking about your ex while you're with your current boyfriend then you're not gonna be happy.
Just figure out what you want and once you decide, go from there.

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sillyrob answered Sunday April 3 2011, 9:23 pm:
I'd say kiss your boyfriend again, then figure out which one is a better kisser and choose him.

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DangerNerd answered Sunday April 3 2011, 5:53 pm:
Well, since you have already cheated on your boyfriend... and you still aren't sure how you feel, it would be a good idea to come clean with your boyfriend and end the relationship.

It isn't fair to hurt him any more than you already have while you figure out what you want.

Until you know, for certain, what you want out of life, you have to stop this.

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Xui answered Sunday April 3 2011, 5:28 pm:
Be honest and tell your current boyfriend the truth, It's not fair too lead him on.

Decide what you want to do about the situation, What is more important too you and who you can see yourself lasting with.

Why is your ex an ex? Can you see you two dating again and most of all is it the situation fixable. If you don't want to leave your current boyfriend then you need to stop contacting your ex, It's uncool to cheat and lead someone on.

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lali1095 answered Sunday April 3 2011, 5:28 pm:
If you really like your boyfriend you should end any type of communication with your ex. Soon you will start to like your boyfriend as much as you used to. Though if you dont have any feelings for your current bf at all you should brake up with him or you will end up hurting him.


Are you willing to work things out with your bf and stay with him? or Do you want to risk it all for your ex?

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