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My friend with benefit go out with another lady,
and still want FWB with me, but I compuse, ia that
cheater? I fell hurt when they togother, Now he said<He doesn't care for her> but I feel hurt before until now, She get hurt from her husby, she out look for FWB, I don't want to hurt her
if she know He and I come back behind her back,
Event I called and tell her, Never invoid between us, She told my ex, We fight, I hate her and I still fell sorry for her, Need attention
not smart enought to see, man only sweet to get in with you, Now she deeply in love with him, But they can't marry, because She has two kids, and don't want to leave husby, Never know, what they want to do, But her husby know she cheat,
Love is blind, Is that true, He want to come back with me so badly, But I don't want to hurt her felling, event she hurt by take him away from me,
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Peeps is right
The whole idea of friends with benefits is that it is nothing more then that. Personally, I don't believe in the whole friends with benefits only because it 90% of the time causes some sort of drama.
Listen, He is not cheating on you. If you don't like how it is making you feel then I recommend you stop doing what your doing and move on. There is nothing you can do about it, You fooled around knowing it was nothing more then what it was. If the guy wants to go around and date then let him. Don't bully him and his new "friend" because you can't handle the fact that you were just his booty call.
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You need to know something upfront:
Friend with benefits means nothing.
It doesn't mean he likes you. It doesn't mean he has any attachment to you. It doesn't mean he actually wants to spend time with you. He doesn't care about YOU. He cares about the BENEFITS.
That being said, he isn't cheating on you. Not at all. Friends with benefits is like saying, "Let's sleep together--and with other people. I don't care."
You could very well tell the other gal that you're seeing him too. If she's cheating on her husband with this guy then there are good chances that she's just in a friends with benefits relationship with him, too. Which, again, means they're both open to sleeping with other people.
Would I tell her? Sure. I'd say something about seeing what's-his-name, too, but I wouldn't be defensive and be like, "He's mine! You stole him!" because she didn't. Not at all. You kind of AGREED to only be sex to him. You can't expect him to think it was anything more.
Stop sleeping with him. Stop seeing him. Move on, move forward, and avoid the creeps!
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