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Best Friend is going to date the biggest bitch
I believe there was an issue i wrote about this last year.
Im 15/f, hes 16/m, the 'other chic' is 16/f. My best friend's name is lance. His ex (and soon to be girlfriend) name is Rebeeca. Anyway, lance is going to ask her out again in 2 days (March 3 2011). I don't exactly like this girl but i thought 'whatever' right? As long as i don't lose my friend. So i recently hear that Becca is threatening to hit me as well as threratened to kill me. This was told to another close friend of mine who imediately told me. I dont want to bring lance into any of this, nor do anything hasty.
She is always giving me skank looks and makes it obvious that she doesnt want me around-anywhere for that matter What am i supposed to do?
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Even though you don't want to bring Lance into it
i think your going to have to tell him what she said even though it wasn't directed towards him he has a right to know her threatening to hit and kill you isn't something to be taken lightly or as a joke it's serious and isn't right don't ignore the threats tell your parents or whoever you feel comfortable with she threatened you..you can't pretend like she didn't say it or it never happened because if she does try and do something and he finds out you didn't tell him he could turn to you and say why didn't you tell me? If you truely don't like her then tell Lance you don't think it's a good idea he dates her and you feel uncomfortable with him doing so speak up her threatening you shouldn't be tolerated especially if you haven't done anything to her and you did nothing wrong tell Lance how you feel and stay clear of Rebecca you don't want to create more problems for yourself :)
Kaye2918 She shouldn't ignore the threats it's serious and not something to be taken lightly or as a joke don't assume or doubt the girl Rebecca won't do something because you don't know if that's true
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Okay well I know you dont want to bring him into this but its going to be his girlfriend and you are his friend I mean if he's going to ask out then he needs to think about it. I mean she has nothing to do with your friendship with lance but I'm telling you this now before it happeneds cause it happened to me she might end your friendship with him. Um sadly your going to have to do what you don't want to do and talk to him about this...that is if you don't want a girl to be the reason why you loose a friend and another thing is I think shes intimidated by you cause I was at once but I had a dam good reason to be. If you really don't want drama then just let it go and ignore they way she acting cause I highly doubt that shes going to kill you or do anything to you because i wouldn't be a smart move on her part because shes going to loose a boyfriend that way trust me. Hopefully I helped a little and don't be scared of her...she shouldn't mean a thing to you is what my new boyfriend tells me although the girls that know him know that they could never touch not one hair on my head.
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