im about to turn 14 years old and enter into high school. i want to enter high school as a "popular" person. but it seems that only really good looking people are popular. I have big eye lashes blonde medium size hair and a flawless face and I'm a cheerleader . but im short and people dont take me serious. and I guessed by being prettier than them I would be more liked. I need tips on how to do my make up like a pretty cheerleader!
coconutcatastrophe answered Saturday February 26 2011, 10:35 pm: Looks don't get you popularity, personality does. Even if looks do get you populariy it will be for all the wrong reasons and those shallow people who like you for your looks will screw you over in the long run. Don't worry so much about your appearence but how you present yourself and get along with people. [ coconutcatastrophe's advice column | Ask coconutcatastrophe A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday February 26 2011, 4:08 pm: Looks have nothing to do with popularity, and you don't want to be popular for the wrong reason. When I went to high school, there were no "popular" people, but there were cliques. People who were friends with everyone, outgoing, friendly, were liked and respected by everyone. So, if you want to go to high school being popular, re-think that. The older you get, the more you will realize what is important and what isn't. You're only fourteen, so I understand why you think that way but if you're friendly with everyone, people will notice :) [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Capic answered Saturday February 26 2011, 8:04 am: The way you look does not have anything to do with being popular, and being popular isn't really going to do much for you anyway it might just get you in a lot of trouble. However I will tell you this in order to get the best out of you high school years, Be active join alot of clubs do alot of volunteer work join a sport or something and above all FOCUS ON YOUR GRADES!! I can't stress that enough. Any way doing all this being active focusing on your grades and stuff is going to get you friends your going to be meeting people all the time, just talk to people say hi to them show them respect try starting conversation, just please be selective of your friends you don't need to hang out with everyone you meet out of school, I don't care if the most popular group in the school wants you to be friends with them if their trouble stay away from them its not worth it and you well regret it in the long run. [ Capic's advice column | Ask Capic A Question ]
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