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Does my ex want me back???
I saw a few weeks ago that my ex finally joined facebook, but I never friend requested him since I had the fear of him hating me or something. The other day I decided what the hell, why not. If he accepts me, he accepts me; If he doesn't, he doesn't.
Well, he did accept me after all. I didn't say anything to him, I just left it at the accepted friend request. Then he wrote on my wall several minutes later saying "Wow this is crazy, I swear I was just looking for you on this the other day".
And he asked for my number in a message.
So what does it mean ?
I should take it slow, right ??
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First of all, you have to tell me why you had broken up in the first place and what had happened?
Are you keen on getting back wth him?
Maybe you are interpreting the whole thing in a different way. Maybe he doesn't hate you but just wants to be friends with you for old times sake.
But maybe he does have intentions of getting back with you and maybe he still likes you and never got over you.
I feel you should let him do whatever he wants to do and sit back and watch. Accordingly you will be clear on what his intentions are in a while. Dont think about this too much. And let him call you and message you first. If you even talk to him or meet him up just be your usual friendly self. And dont start liking him just now. Make sure he likes you too before letting go.
Hope I helped.
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I guess...but you should have waited till he added you first on facebook that was your number 1 mistake right there (if you want to date him again). He could just want to be friends with you and reconnected that way. It doesn't mean that he wants you back just yet. But that's good that he talked to you first. If you want this guy back in your life you have to respond slowly to his responses. Don't let him mess with your emotions so fast. That message he said probably means that he wants to reconnect with you because he was thinking about you. Take it slower than before. Remember he's your ex not your boyfriend. Things could be really awkward if you don't have control over this.
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If you could let him go in the first place I'm not sure if reuniting is the best idea.
If you are considering this because you'd like to be with someone- back out now, he is not the one for you and you are not moving in a direction to find the guy who is.
If you really like him, however- I'd say try it, but I warn you these situations don't usually end well.
As a guy I can tell you first hand are minds are dark places, and while I have enough self control to create a gentleman of myself- many do not.
He may want to be with you- but he may just want to get in your pants.
Follow your heart, listen to your mind, and trust your gut.
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Hi,
Him saying that about you, means he probably couldn't stop thinking about you and decided to look for you/find a way to communicate. Yes, you should take it slow, for you had previously broke up and shouldn't jump back into the realationship right away; it could only cause more hurt. Talk to him if you want, but make sure you are both on the same level/wanting the same things before you think about getting involved again. Any problems that caused you to break up should be resolved first. Please be absolutely positive he is the guy who you want to be with, before you make any decision <3
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