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Member Since: February 22, 2011
Answers: 2
Last Update: February 22, 2011
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I saw a few weeks ago that my ex finally joined facebook, but I never friend requested him since I had the fear of him hating me or something. The other day I decided what the hell, why not. If he accepts me, he accepts me; If he doesn't, he doesn't.
Well, he did accept me after all. I didn't say anything to him, I just left it at the accepted friend request. Then he wrote on my wall several minutes later saying "Wow this is crazy, I swear I was just looking for you on this the other day".
And he asked for my number in a message.
So what does it mean ?
I should take it slow, right ?? (link)
If you could let him go in the first place I'm not sure if reuniting is the best idea.

If you are considering this because you'd like to be with someone- back out now, he is not the one for you and you are not moving in a direction to find the guy who is.

If you really like him, however- I'd say try it, but I warn you these situations don't usually end well.

As a guy I can tell you first hand are minds are dark places, and while I have enough self control to create a gentleman of myself- many do not.

He may want to be with you- but he may just want to get in your pants.

Follow your heart, listen to your mind, and trust your gut.


18/f
i recently tidied myself up down there, and i accidently cut over some small almost bite looking lumps whilst shaving.
now ive noticed that i have little bumps and what looks like ingrown hair coming back.
how do i get rid of it?
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These/ this may not be ingrown hairs. If you do not "tidy" yourself regularly, the skin and more specifically the follicles will become enflamed and look like red bumps- these will go away naturally but there are lotions and oils (and better razors) which help aid in this. If it is an ingrown hair, pit some antibacterial cream on it if the skin isn't too sensitive- otherwise simply keep I well washed. Try not to pop it if it becomes pus filled- though you may have to eventually.

It will naturally go away but it may be sensitive for a while.




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