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He seems not to care and to "forget" that he loves me pretty often
I am 15 and he is 18. I met him last summer and he was kind, nice, shy and sweet. After a while, he became my boyfriend, but he lives in America and I live in Greece. He always says that he loves me and that he'll marry me and that no girl is like me, but he has had 4 other girlfriends while we were together, other girls post dirty stuff on his fb wall, he's told me twice that I am embarassing him in front of his friends, and whenever I just have some tears on my eyes and tell him that I'm kind of bothered, he just laughs sarcastically and tells me that he cannot take any girl drama. I love him, but he's not the same person anymore. I can't really say no to him cuz if he leaves me i'll be alone and I just hurt. I'm not a slut, i'm a rebel, i deserve some respect! But I can't even talk to him, he always shouts :'( What should I do? I'm afraid I will leave him eventually...but I'm not ready to be alone again. He recently told me that he doesn't need me, that I just "add to his happiness". What should I do? :'(
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Stop talking to him.
First of all, he's 18. I don't know what the laws are like in Greece, but in America, if you were to be dating each other, he'd be going to jail.
Second of all, he's a scumbag. He clearly has no respect for you. If he really "loved" you, he would delete those wall posts from other girls, he wouldn't say you're embarrassing, or call your feelings "girl drama." Plus he yells at you, and he told you he didn't need you.
Is that really the type of person you want to be with? Is that the way you think you deserve to be treated? I know you're 15, and right now it seems like he's the only boy who will ever love you, and all that nonsense, but sweetheart, you are 15. You live in a wonderful country with very cute boys who are bound to treat you better & love you the way that you should be loved. You have a long way to go. Don't get so dramatic over some American who doesn't care about you.
Stop talking to him. Delete his number if you've got it. Block his e-mails and delete him from Facebook. You're young, and you can do better. Don't dwell on this guy. He isn't worth your time. :)
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Honey, your investing your heart into a relationship that isn't worth saving. When a guy starts treating you like this he is basically telling you that he is ready to move on and so should you.
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He doesn't love you, He's playing with you just like he's playing everyone else.
If a guy is embarrassed of you in front of his friends then clearly he doesn't deserve you. No guy should ever give a crap of what his friends think, If he loves you for you that is all that matters. It is not about impressing his friends nor what they think of the situation. If a guy can't commit himself to you and only you then obviously you shouldn't be in the relationship.
At 15, You are young and have all the time to meet other guys. The truth, If you want a real relationship that is satisfying the internet is really not the place to look. Your best bet is to put yourself out there and try to meet people in person. Anyone can say things over the internet and I'm sure if I tried hard enough I could be a convincing 18 year old too. Drop him, He's all about flattery not love and he is not going to show you respect he has already proved it.
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