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A different type of guy question, pretty long.
15/f
There are two boys that treat me strangely. I want to know why. They're both the grade above me and are kinda clowns, but not the kind that everyone finds endearing. Some people love them, some want to punch them, ya know?
The weird stuff they do--
-Teasing me about things involving sex. One of them kept saying the weirdest things, and honestly I think it was to make me blush. Why? Because the redder I got, the happier he looked. Very, very awkward. The other does sometimes too, I think.. I don't quite understand the things he says, but my friends say it is. Either way, whenever I get confused he just laughs and says "nevermind."
-Acting like they want a high five, then pulling their hand back and laughing. I get annoyed and call them jerks. A couple minutes later they will force me to give them one.
-One always sings some kinda song to me and tries to scare me by hitting my desk when he goes by, the same one that tried to make me blush by talking about sex.
To be honest, these guys don't seem like the sincerest types on Earth, so I'm sure it isn't attraction. Why pick on ME, though? :/ The biggest compliment I've ever got on my looks from a guy was that I "am alright", so what the heck? Are they just getting a thrill from teasing someone who is admittedly rather sheltered?
Sorry that this is so long. Thank you very much though for reading all this way and, if you answer, for answering. :) I appreciate it a whole lot.
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They do it because of the reaction they get from you. Try to ignore them, and if that helps your problem is solved. In my experience, people do this because they have found an easy target. When you take away the easy target factor, they have nothing left as a reward and the behavior should stop.
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I think they like you:P but I think because they know that you are younger they pick on you. I really don't know how to explain it. But like have you seen on movies where the older guy is in love with the younger girl and he kind of picks on her in a kinda flirty way or talking about love. Like in your place. So I think that's what they are doing. I must say that is unusual haha .But hey there is a good explanation! So instead of getting red joke back and I know sometimes you can't help blushing but hide it with comming right back with the joke or like what ever they they Are saying! So when you come back. If they like you they will probaly flirt back or If they were just picking on you to be mean they'll back off!! Haha I hope this helps good luck:)
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hahaha i used to have a situation similar to this ! the guy then confessed to like me , but to be honest this kind of persons like guys who try to be funny and act like total clowns but not necesarilly in a cool way..they sometimes act like jerks and dont know how to aproach to girls, my guess is they might think your cute, hence why they pick on you also cause to guys picking on a youunger girl its like makes her feel intimidated by them i really dont know how to explain, alsooo guys this age looovee to pick on girls who are like calling them jerks and stuff like that its just an age stage hahaha its similar to kindergarten ! like when boys still dont want to admit they like girls, they push them or call them names and stuff but its just cause they dont know how to express it , so either this guys pick on you because they find your reaction to their comments and teasing very funny, or its like wehn the cool guy picks on the nerd guy but i highly doubt this is your case hahaha im just giving some examples... like there was a girl in my class who was like i dont know pretty weird she has always been the kind that gets shocked by listening that someone kissed someone else hahaha imagine her reaction if someone tells her yea i did this with this guy and stuff like sexual stuff , it was sooo funny so people used to tease her cause they knew she got all awkward and uncomfortable....
my point is maybe they like you but this guys dont know how to do something about it and guys that act like clowns and think they're so funny like to tease girls theyre attracted to when they arent that sure about doing something about it, and kinda like intimidating and feel that you like their attention also cause you're a bit younger than them, anyway don't worry so much about it and its obvious the most they could say to you is youre alright , this type of guy is not usually the sweetest guys to girls unless their his girlfirend or whatever hahaha i dont know how to explain it but dont woorry about it , either they like you , or they make fun of the way you react to their comments (theres people that find it funny to make other people usually younger make them feel awkward with comments) its not necesarilly something bad like i said, unless you're being picked on like the girl in my class that they used to make fun of her .....but i doubt thats your case. dont worry its just boys being immature teenagers hahaha i know this makes us girls very confussed trust me but dont over think it :P
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