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I like this girl at work, but she keeps ignoring me.
Okay, so i like this girl at my work. She seems really nice, is extremely religious, and seems to travel. I overheard her talking to one of her co-workers about her breakup/cancel of an engagement. (she had been dating her boyfriend for two years)i had just recently asked her to be my friend on facebook, she accepted it. but whenever i'm on at the same time she is, she wont chat or respond to any of my messages, and i dont know why. i mean, why accept my friend request and then dont talk to me? i dont really talk to her at work because there isnt enough time to have a real conversation. i havent liked someone this much in a long time, so i'm not about to give up just like that, but i need help on what to do next. many answers would be appreciated.
p.s. i am a guy using a girl profile name, i know. it's only so girls would ask me for advice. sorry for the trick.
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You need to talk to her in person.
Even just a little.
A lot of people don't actually chat much online. Especially with people they don't have a solid real-life friendship with.
But by not responding, she's giving you some real clear messages that she isn't very interested, even in friendship with you. If you aren't ready to accept that, then you'll need to speak to her in person to see if she is standoffish and withdrawn there as well, or if she is friendly and just doesn't know enough about you to be interested yet.
If online isn't working, you're gonna have to make use of the little time you've got at work, or give up on it.
P.S. Questions are anonymous. We can't see your screen name. I'm surprised you didn't notice how many girls here are looking for 'a guys perspective'. There is no reason to be deceptive about it.
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