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My Best Friend & I
My best friend & I are very close. I dont know what it is about him but I can feel like I can trust him with EVERYTHING & ANYTHING. Everyone who knows how we are around eachother always tell us that we would make the cutest couple because we care about eachother so much. When I tell him about something stupid I might do he goes through so much to stop me & im the same with him. Does it sound like we should be a couple?
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Dear should be ,
i belive so talk too him go for it !
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The question is, do you think you should be a couple? I mean, do you have feelings for him? If so, take that next step, and become his gf(:
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Picture yourself kissing him.
Fluttery feeling? Probably should date him.
Bored/disturbed/nauseated? Probably not.
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Well it is only up to you. Don't get with a guy because of what other people say. If you have feelings for him and he feels the same for you, that's when you guys should be a couple. If other people are just saying these things because they think you guys would be cute then it doesn't mean you should be with him.
If you don't have these kinds of feelings for him, don't be with him because it might ruin the friendship or make it awkward.
If you do have feelings for him, then tell him and let him know and see what he thinks. If he doesn't feel the same then keep it as friends.
Good luck!
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I think that you already have a great companionship with your bf. I wouldn't suggest that you date @ the moment. An unmentioned observation about friends turning into lovers is that if the timing is off and not mutually compatible... your may ruin something you can never get back.
Ride the high of your current relationship. If there's point where ya'll can't possibly NOT date... then transition into the more intimate climate. As freinds, you too are open and willing to transfer infomation to each other without regards to being in a "traditional" bf/gf relationship. Don't put boundaries on something that is obviously, effectively, mutually... great.
Besides...
you have a great relationship, you tell each other everything, there's no real constraints of other people interferring, seems that you're both single..., other than the traditional sterotypical relationships...
What make you think you're not a couple anyway?...
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