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Too many frenemies
All of my friends are really enemies. But how can they stop doing this to me? They do really mean things. How can I stop them?
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Everyone has fake people surrounding them but it's your choice to let them be in your life. Cut them out completely and don't look back. People are going to be mean but it's your choice for them to surround you and let them effect you. When they see how much they effect you, they will just continue to do the same things they are doing. There is plenty of good people out there, and i'm sure you will find people who will treat you good. (:
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Hey,
The only way your frenemies are going to stop is if someone tries to stop them. It will take a few tries, but if you let them know it isn't right to hurt people and tell them to back off, they may begin to believe you. They will only change their actions if they believe what they are doing is wrong. You can stop them by telling them to stop (say it loud and clear), by telling them to back off, by ignoring them, or by having someone you trust defend you.
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simple. get new friends.
the purpose of friendship is to help each other and grow from the relationship, not to feel resentful.
-Gunner
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