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How long should you date before you have sex?


Question Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 9:08 pm

I just started dating this boy and we were talking about sex. We're both virgins but both really horny and interested in doing it some time. The thing is I don't want our relationship to be all about doing it. I want to have something strong and lasting. How long should we wait to have sex then if we do actually end up doing it? When is a good time to have sex? He said I should ask around the question of how long should you date before having sex and I told him I would get some opinions so...

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holahayley56 answered Sunday October 24 2010, 12:54 pm:
For the first time I think 6 months to a year. Then you know for sure there not just in it for the sex. 6 monthsish is how
long most people wait. But I think it also depends on your age and when you truly feel ready.

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sml111992 answered Wednesday October 20 2010, 10:46 pm:
my rule for myself is a year. and i did wait a year. for me i feel like if this guy really loves me hell wait until i know im ready to give up my virginity to him.

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laynemayhem answered Wednesday October 20 2010, 10:13 pm:
4-6 months is a good length to wait, especially if you don't wanna ruin something that could be great. a lot of people make the mistake of giving it away too early and in the end it totally ruins the relationship. my boyfriend and i waited about 4 months and we're still together, after 2 years.

and remember to always be safe :) take care

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