Question Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 9:08 pm
I just started dating this boy and we were talking about sex. We're both virgins but both really horny and interested in doing it some time. The thing is I don't want our relationship to be all about doing it. I want to have something strong and lasting. How long should we wait to have sex then if we do actually end up doing it? When is a good time to have sex? He said I should ask around the question of how long should you date before having sex and I told him I would get some opinions so...
sml111992 answered Wednesday October 20 2010, 10:46 pm: my rule for myself is a year. and i did wait a year. for me i feel like if this guy really loves me hell wait until i know im ready to give up my virginity to him. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Wednesday October 20 2010, 10:13 pm: 4-6 months is a good length to wait, especially if you don't wanna ruin something that could be great. a lot of people make the mistake of giving it away too early and in the end it totally ruins the relationship. my boyfriend and i waited about 4 months and we're still together, after 2 years.
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