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When am I ready to have sex?
Well, i'm in a relationship. And I haven't ever had sex
before. I am kind of nervous because I probably won't
know what to do. What am I suppose to do? I'm nervous. Why? I feel ready but i'm just nervous.
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you're not ready if you still feel "nervous." if you do it with that sense of doubt, you'll end up regretting it. your first time is a big deal, don't screw it up.
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usually, when you THINK you're ready, you're not. you need to KNOW you're ready. do you love the person you're with? are you willing to give them the only virginity you'll ever have? you don't wanna waste it away. having sex for the first time is not a big race, if you know for a fact that you and said guy are in love and willing to go that extra step, not just for hormones, but to share something, then by all means, go ahead. but BE SAFE and use a condom.
usually, when a girl has sex for the first time, she's not really expected to do anything. the guy is expected to really put forth the effort because the girl may feel some discomfort or pain. this isn't typical, though, maybe 50% of the time. once you get used to the feel, thats when you start experimenting with different positions.
take care :)
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