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Confused and don't know what to do!!!
14/F
It's more like 2 questions...confused!!
ok so I've liked my friend for about 5 years now but I found out he doesn't like me. He only thinks of me as a friend. I want to know if I should keep on liking him or just forget about him and stay friends with him??
Also his cuzin likes me too but I just think of him as a friend but ever since I found out he likes me, I've been thinking about him...What do I do??
They are both 15.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Start hanging out with the guy you've known for 5 years's cousin. If you hang out with his cousin more, you might find that you like him a lot. And since he likes you that would be good. Sometimes its best to date people you ARE friends with cause it can be unpredictable. And the guy you've been friends with for 5 years, tell him that you used to like him, and then you realized that it was a crush and you're over it. It will make him think about if he likes you or if he doesnt. And if he doesn't, thats fine! You can still be close friends And don't ever have your girl friends [or other guy friends] be messangers between this. Its easier to hear what you both have to say from each other.
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5 years is a long time. And the longer it is, the harder and more pain you feel.
I think that if he finally told you he just wanted to be friends, then just stick with that. If he isn't gonna treat you right, leave him.
I think you should go for his cousin. You seem to be really interested, so I say go for it!
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If your friend doesn't like you the same way you like him, forget those feelings. You don't want to end up hurt.
If you like his cousin, be relaxed. You don't want to admit to him that he's been on your mind. If you want, there's nothing wrong with getting in contact with his cousin. Get to know him, be calm about it. Everything will fall into place on its own. After all, you're still very young. I wouldn't worry about any of that.
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If he just likes you as a friend, then there is no reason to think of him as a possible romantic partner. You'd just be wasting your time. Now, who knows what will happen with some time, for now though, you just need to think of him as a friend.
The cousin is a little more tricky. Do you really think he would make a good boyfriend, or are you just attracted because he has feelings for you?
I ask because if you decide to be the cousins girlfriend, and then it doesn't last...is this going to make hanging around with your friend uncomfortable?
Mostly you need to follow your heart. Don't rush into anything.
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