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14/F

It's more like 2 questions...confused!!

ok so I've liked my friend for about 5 years now but I found out he doesn't like me. He only thinks of me as a friend. I want to know if I should keep on liking him or just forget about him and stay friends with him??

Also his cuzin likes me too but I just think of him as a friend but ever since I found out he likes me, I've been thinking about him...What do I do??

They are both 15. (link)
Start hanging out with the guy you've known for 5 years's cousin. If you hang out with his cousin more, you might find that you like him a lot. And since he likes you that would be good. Sometimes its best to date people you ARE friends with cause it can be unpredictable. And the guy you've been friends with for 5 years, tell him that you used to like him, and then you realized that it was a crush and you're over it. It will make him think about if he likes you or if he doesnt. And if he doesn't, thats fine! You can still be close friends And don't ever have your girl friends [or other guy friends] be messangers between this. Its easier to hear what you both have to say from each other.


soo me and my boyfriend have sex all the time. but sometimes i just get this guilt feeling afterwards like im doing something bad. and likee sometimes its not even during sex. like we'll just be doing sexual things and ill make him stop because i start feeling guilty. its nothing like my religion and it has nothing to do with him. i love him with all my heart. but i just dont understand why. any ideas? (link)
Did he date any of your friends? Have you met his parents? Did you have a bad relationship before you met him? These are a few questions that you can ask yourself and if you feel guilty answering them, then thats the problem. The best thing to do [if this is the reason] is to think about how much you like [or love] him and try to get past whatever is making you feel guilty about having sex with him.


Hey, last saturday i woke up with this really bad pain above my left eye kinda surrouding the eye kinda like pressure. As the week has gone by the pain is getting worse and worse. Today it started getting to the point where i couldnt keep my head up it was getting so bad. It feels like a knife keeps stabbing above my eye. I was sitting in the back of class and leaned my head against the wall and taped it kinda and it didnt hurt where it hit but when it hit all i could feel was the area where this pain is. Everything else wasnt bothered. When i got home today the last couple hours ive been getting dizzy and out of it. It seemed at first like a sinus infection but i never got dizzy or anything this bad with a sinus infection. Anyone have any ideas? if it doesnt get better soon i gotta go to the er i think. im 17 and male by the way (link)
You need to go talk to your doctor and see about an X-Ray or a CT Scan because my co-worker was complaining about bad headaches that came out of no where like you said, and she ended up having brain cancer. Im NOT saying you have brain cancer, i'm just saying you might want to get that ruled out just in case


Hey! I'm seventeen and my boyfriend is eighteen. So the problem is whenever we're getting physical and what not he is super super super gentle. Like to the point where it's not even enjoyable. I mean I love how tender he is but I can always feel him being all catious and careful so I feel like he's not enjoying it or with it at all and thattt turns me off. I want him to actually get into it. I've brought it up with him a few times and he says he's scared he'll hurt or "break" me. I'm like 5'5, 105 lbs and he's 6 foot and pretty built... so I mean yeah I can see how he thinks he'd hurt me but I really don't think he could do that much damage... I just want to feel his intensity and I don't but I don't know how to show him that he doesn't have to be so tentative... (link)
why don't you try getting on top? Then show him how you like it and be rough about it. He might realize how much he likes it that way. Maybe it'll make him be more rough, try it. :D


18 f
Hey guys I'm going to a very early acting open call. And I basically have to be funny and energetic. I really hope I get chosen but it will be toooo early for me to be so energetic haha. So I was wondering what drinks or foods give u energy. I heard red bull helps ! But what elese? (link)
Well, this always gave me energy when i was waking up at 5am for cheer practice.
go to sleep earlier than usual the night before, then when you wake up eat breakfast [maybe have an apple and a granola bar with some water], take a shower and make sure to wash your face cause it'll wake you up and you'll have better complexion. Then when your done with the shower, put on some up beat happy music while you get dressed. The main idea is to not feel rushed when you go in for the open call. And while you're on your way to the place where it's at, listen to some happy music, or Journey's Don't Stop Beievin'
that always helps :D




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