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Work friends
So at my new job I became friends with this lady. She's about 40, and I'm 18. Anyways, she invited me to her birthday party along with several of my supervisors and bosses. She really wants me to go, but I think it would be inappropriate for me to go because all the people that are going are much older, not to mention, my bosses. Especially since they would all be drinking and I wouldn't be. I know she would be disappointed if I didn't go.
So what should I do? Do I go to make her happy or do I not go?
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go to the party it would be rude not to and if you don't pitch up when you see each other at work it would be awkward so go and make the best of it it would give you a chance to interact with your co-workers which would be good for your job
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Go.
Welcome to the adult world where age doesn't matter so much. You two are friends, it's her birthday, it would be rude not to go!
Drink non-alcoholic drinks, don't worry about what you have to say, try and get other people to talk about themselves and be the best listener the world.
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I think you tell her happy birthday and explain to her it would be uncomfortable for you. Explain it to her just like you did here. You are to young to drink and that you'd feel a bit left out.
I'm sure she wants you to be there along with everyone else. But, I think she will understand.
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