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antisocial???


Question Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 12:30 am

Ok well here's the problem first I don't have any friends I don't hang out and my dog is my best friend .and you are probably thinking what the hell .but I think I am antisocial .I don't have nothing in comon with people .actualy people eritate me its like what people do doesn't make any since. So I just keep to myself I can't say that I'm happy but its just the way that I am so does this make me antisocial ? No clue !!

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kiran answered Saturday September 11 2010, 4:39 pm:
I wouldn't consider you antisocial. Cause I think you want friends, right? Nothing is wrong with having a dog as a best friend :) They're awesome but having regular friends is good too. I guess it seems like the people around you irritate you because you don't really have anything in common with them. You should find something people that have the same interests as you so you might not find them as irritating.

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DirkGently answered Saturday September 11 2010, 2:27 am:
You are not antisocial. Antisocial people have an abnormally low desire for social interaction. Your question appears to be clear evidence that while you may not have many friends right now, you do want to have them.

If you are interested in developing more fulfilling friendships with other people, I would recommend that you find people that share common interests or problems.

As to people being irritating and not making sense, I would recommend that you study some psychology. People are not logical creatures; they are driven by needs, fears, desires, insecurities, love, hate, and a host of other complicated emotions that can be difficult to understand.

Lastly, I must say that I would be horribly disappointed if your dog was not your best friend. That's what they're for. Please give 'em a treat for me.

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jada_lynne answered Saturday September 11 2010, 2:01 am:
I don't think you're necessarily antisocial...particular maybe. I think once you have a 'better' variety of people to select from, you may feel differently.

It sounds like most of the people you currently know simply don't have the same interests as you.

It would be great if you could meet some people who do share your interests. If you have certain hobbies, entertain the idea of meeting up with others who share that interest.

You don't say your age. I'm assuming that you are young and just haven't had many opportunities with like-minded people.

There's a whole big world out here. I hope you find your niche. We all need friends sooner or later.

Take care and best wishes,
Jada

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