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how to "ditch" someone
so me and two of my friends have this tradition where every year we ditch the last friday of may and go to the beach. and another one of our friends in under the impresion thats part of this (which she isnt) and its nothing personal but we wanna keep it just the 3 of us, and shes already started asking like "are we still on for the ebach fruday" and telling people about it. what do i do?
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i ditched one day and the principle came up to me and asked me where i was and i told him where and i got caught
the thing im getting at is this
if you ditch you get homework and lots of it if you think ditching is cool it isnt im telling you dont because your smarter than that and i know it
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Why does she feel like she's a part of it? Have you been discussing your plans openly in front of her? If you have, then she probably thinks she's been invited, and you're going to need to disinvite her.
The best course of action would be to let her know that this is an old tradition for the three of you, but you'd love to go to the beach with her on Saturday/First day out of school/Some other time. It's nothing against her.
In the future, if you're going to make plans that don't include other people, make sure you keep them a secret until after the fact!
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Talk to her and tell her that its a tradition for you three girls to go to the beach, its been that way for a while and you'd like to keep it that way. Tell her its not that yo dont want her not to go its just a tradition you dont want to break. maybe plan something with her over the weekend so she isnt mad at you guys.
Hope i helped (:
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tell her like it is. you just want it to be the 3 of you because it's been like that for years. let her know that it's nothing against her and also she has no right to tell other people. sorry. hope i helped a little
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