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The Friend Stealer?
OK so I have a situation here. I have 2 friends. One used to be really nice and used to treat me and another friend equally, but now she seems to only like the other person and not me. She almost got me in serious trouble once,she dosen't hang out with me any more and it's irritating! I Want to have them both be my frinds again but I dont know what to say! I really dont know what I'm going to do when the weekend is over, so I would appreciate any help. Thank You!
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You're friend actually has just simply changed, but maybe not in a good way. You should try to talk this through with your friend that has changed, but make sure not to blame it on your other friend. Remember to listen to what she has to say, and don't get all worked up at her for nothing. Listen to her reasoning, and make sure she listens to yours. Make sure to let her know you miss her, and let her know you hope to reconnect your frienship with her. Or you could always talk to both friends which is probably the better choice. But be careful not to blame them for anything. Remind them both of all the good memories you guys have shared, and ask them,mostly the one who changed, what has happened? I would prefer this more though because it's good to release your feelings to both friends, and not just one. This should make you guys have a stronger realationship than ever before. We hope everything works out:)))
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People don't get stolen, they leave.
(Unless they get kidnapped or something of course.)
Your friend changed her behaviour. She choose to change the way she treats you. It's not the other persons fault.
Talk to your friend who has changed. Ask her why. Don't blame her or accuse her. Just ask why and tell how much you miss the friendship you had before.
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