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Should I call my ex
My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He was going through a depression and cut off all connections with everyone. He says he needed time alone and that he was no longer happy with anything. First he stopped talking to his best friend. Then all other friends, then he broke up with me. I tried to still be there for him and told him to call me whenever he needed me. But after a couple of weeks of roller coaster emotions and not being sure if he was going to call or not, i decided to end the whole thing. He kept telling me that he will come back one day and that I just need to be strong and move on for now. So thats what I told him that I needed to move on and not to call me anymore unless things were going to be different. he told me he didn't know if he loved me anymore. because he doesn't know how he feels about anything anymore. He said that his depression was getting worse and needed to find jesus. So we said our finally goodbyes 3 weeks ago and haven't talk since
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we were really in love and didn't have a bad relationship. Even planned marriage
he was in a depression when we were both in freshman year. He stopped talking to all of friends then too and then later regretted it and tried to get back in contact with them a year later when we started dating.
we are both seventeen and are in our junior year of high school. We were together 9 months but have know each other for 4 years. We liked each other freshmen year but he became very depressed because he was backstabbed by his friends and his first love cheated on him. He cut off all connections with everyone at school then to. He moved schools our 10th grade year. We didnt talk all school year but I texted him out the blue during summer and we began to have a relationship. He tried to get back in contact with the friends he cut off because he regretted doing that to them.
I REALLY MISS HIM AND IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK WE WILL EVER TALK AGAIN? Should I call him or should I wait for him to call me? ( i don't think he will though...thats what scares me..)
he was my best friend and i was his. We talked about everything
Please do not tell me i need to just move on. Because i am doing that. When i am ready to date again. I will do so. But I just really want him in my life again... .. do you think it would be weird if i wait a couple of weeks give him his space... then call him to check on him?
i will do anything to have him in my life again... even if its just as friends. Every night i fight myself to call him and my friends tell me he dosent care anymore. but i have a hard time taking advice from them. He hasnt called me but i do talk to his ex bestfriend (who he cut off contact with too) and he tells me to wait for him because he is going through alot right now. I just dont know what to do anymore.
& please excuse any misspelled words and my grammar I wrote this in a rush..Thank you in advanced
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Remember he did this before with his friends then regretted it a year later?
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If you care about him the way you say you do then fo not leave him alone. Call him. Do it now. Depression sucks I know that for a fact. You do not want to do anything, see or talk to anybody. You resent the fact that you are alone and yet don't want it to change. You would probably be the best thing in his life right now. He may resist, he may resist for awhile. But the truth is he needs somebody right now and it should probably be you
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Depression is a terrible thing to have. My mom has is, but she is on medication so it isn't so bad. Is he on medication, if not, then maybe he should try that. But, yeah, he is going through a tough time and he would or will need you more than ever. Don't give up unless he tells you directly or you are put into danger. it's up to you and how much your emotions will let you do to help. don't push your limits. good luck and hang in there. p.s. professional counseling may help him too. try talking to his parents.
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