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Boring Bf


Question Posted Friday March 19 2010, 12:00 am

Well I love my boyfriend of 3 yrs next week with all of my heart im 13 and want to do something more than hold hands. I want a more sexual feeling. I get turned on when ever I am with him. BTW I am gonna be at a club meeting and I would like to do it in the van I have 3 questions
1. Would it be odd if I put my hand on his jeans where his dick is?
2.Any ideas as to what I should do
3.Should I kiss him

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LagunaBabe answered Friday March 19 2010, 10:30 pm:
Well deary, I do not doubt that you love your boyfriend of three years (and congratulations for being together so long, much longer than most couples your age), however, you are only thirteen. I know that isn't what you want to hear, but believe me, it is what you need to hear. You have so much time for this and a lot of complications can come from trying to get that "sexual feeling" when you're too young or its too soon. The true test to a relationship is waiting, see if your relationship lasts another 3 years and then start thinking about a sexual relationship because you will understand more at that time.

However, I don't think there is anything wrong with kissing or holding each other and those sweet little things you can do to show your love, I just do not recommend anything other than that until you get older.

1. I wouldn't call it odd, but extremely inappropriate at your age. Wait until you get older, this can bring a lot of complications and you both could rush things even more and that's really not a good idea, friend.

2. Assuming this is in general, as I mentioned before -- kissing, holding each other, etc. Those things are really nice to do and are appropriate.

3. Well, you should kiss if him if you like to and I think that's okay for your age. :)

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gloriaword answered Friday March 19 2010, 8:54 pm:
3 years old, that awesome congrat
i think you two should be careful, the first question is odd, but kissing thas sound cooll to me there is nothing wrong with that

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Friday March 19 2010, 7:28 pm:
3 Years is a long time I agree


However, Lets back up. You are only 13, You are young. In my opinion a little to young to be thinking about sex. Sex is a very serious thing, It is something you share with someone special, You can see yourself with for a long time. You are only a virgin ONE time, I would wait until you are older.

Anyway, If you DO decide to do it USE A CONDOM!!! Babies are costly and very expensive. Whatever happens don't be fooled by the pull out method either because this is usually why babies are born.

You can spice it up by NOT having sex, You can kiss him, Hold hands, Hug, there are a lot of things you can do WITHOUT having sex.

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Sami143 answered Friday March 19 2010, 10:00 am:
3 years is a long time, but your only 13. Wait!!! I promis if you guys start moving to fast you will regret it. Kiss him, thats fine but dont go any further for a long time.
1. It wouldnt be weird... but i wouldnt do it.
2.Just cuddle with him...take it slow!
3.Go ahead and kiss him but make it special and cute.

Hope h helped(:

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candi4545 answered Friday March 19 2010, 8:36 am:
1= no its not odd at all that is how alot of sexual things get started, infact good for you for making the connection most girls wouldnt have
2=once you too get into making out and touching and kissing you could sit face to face on his lap and grind while you made out.....you could let him touch your boobs most guys would love it if you let them doo that
3= YES KISS HIM KISS HIM KISS HIM
=) hope this helped i appreciate comments and rateings

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