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How Do I Tell My Boyfriend I'm Ready For Sex WithOut actually Tellinq him?
15/f
I Have Been With my Boyfriend for 4 months since febuary fifteenth and well we have talked about sex when we first started out and he said he doesn't want to because it really hurts for your first time, but things have changed since then. we hav fell in love and I have brought up the situation about him giving me head and he said yea I would definitly give you head (this was recently) So Now I think I'm ready to have sex. Like I don't think it would ruin anything becuss we are really close and connected couple honestly . . Buht like how do I tell him I'm ready?
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i would wait i think you are a little young to have sex so i mean if i was you i would wait but this is your life so you can if you want it does hurt my friends friend that is 18 said it hurts and started bleeding but make sure he wears a condom until you r ready to have kids.
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Let nature do the work for you. Have a very heavy make out session. When you know he is sufficiently aroused simply reach down and grab his penis.
Whisper in his ear "I want you inside me now, right now."
If he isn't screwing your brains out within 5 minutes, he is gay...find someone else
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Okay as this seems to be the BIG topic these days
You are 15, You are too young. You are NOT ready to have a baby, Raise a baby or even support a baby. Even if you THINK you are ready get it out of your head because you still live at home with your parents etc. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG
Sorry but it's the truth
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At 15 I have to throw out the default advice against it. You're too young, etc etc, all the things you'll ignore completely.
But I still have to say it.
Anyway, have you considered going with the humor approach? Like sitting him down and saying "I want to talk about sex" and when he looks rapt with attention and wonders what about sex, reply "having it"
I can promise that whatever happens to the relationship, 10 years down the road it will still be an enjoyable memory.
When you need to talk to your significant other about something that you're shy and embarassed about, few things can be more effective than a quick and blunt delivery. You get saying it out of the way as fast as possible, and then you get to enjoy that you're not the only one mortified in the room.
If you're good, you can horrify/shock your boyfriend worse than you are, and then you rule the power dynamic for the rest of the conversion, he'll just sit there and nod his head and give you whatever you want.
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if you feel your ready (now think it through and make sureyou have no doubts in your mind because i know i wish i had saved my self till marriage) and one more thing please use protection even if you think you want a child i was 15 when i had my son.
when you guys kiss move to making out and do other things sometimes it just happens he may say are you sure or what are you doing. dont make it an akward moment tell him you love him and you feel you are ready and ask him if thats okay or do you feel the same way now if he gest discouraged or something dont get upset if he says hes not ready because he may just want to wait alittle longer.
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