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Scared to be with him..
Okay so this is kinda gay but here goes...
I met this guy through my friend and he seemed pretty chill. I only met him one but after we met he started texting ke and was like hey hin I wanna hang out you're so cute and hot andni wanna hang it with you. So I'm kind of prude, I've only hooked up with two guys and I've never had a bf. I've heard from some people that this guy is kind of weird or desperate or whatever but it's not like he's uglyI thought he was pretty cute andnhes obviously interseted in me . So he weants to hang out and hook up so I have two concerns.. .
First of all shouldni hang out with him in the first place, I mean if people say he's desperate I dint want to se desperate or prude cause like he's the only guy. Could yet or somethig like that
and second.... Imnervous to hang out with him because I onlyy met him once in person and then he starts texting me saying you were so cute but j feel like he's gonna see me and be like oh I remembered you diifferently or something idk I guess cause I'm inexperienced I'm ius nervous to hang out with him one on one. Sorry this is so long and lame haha.
Any advice???.
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Okay well hey "Scared to be with him..." I'm Ella. First off what I'm not hearing from you is are you genuinly interested? If your not there is no point in the persuit whether he's ugly, cute or desperate. Now if you are interested go for it. People say lots of things but when you're talking to him what do you think? Rely on your own oppinion because thats the one that's going to matter.However, if whenyou're talking or out and you get a creepy feeling RUN! Your gut is your natural intrinct follow it. What are you nervous about when it comes to hanging out? About the physical? If so dont put your self in situatiions that are difficult go with a group, or a crowded area so you dont feel pressured. Or is it inexperience in dating? Be yourself and he doesnt like it he can chew bricks. Best of luck, give yourself a chance, be safe, and own it because you can :).
-Ella
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i think you should wait before hooking up with anyone until you are at least dating and know each other better. It doesnt seem like a good idea to go hang out with if you have all of these second thoughts about seeing him.
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hey there.
first of all, (this pertaining to anyone you come across) dont always believe what other people say about a person. rumors about certain people are very untrue, sometimes they are made up for one reason or another but regardless, you'll never really know unless you know the person right?
in this case, what other people are saying about him is preventing you from getting to know him. dont let what other people say hold you back (from getting to know someone) if you dont see, or have any evidence of him being desperate. as i said, you wont know unless you find out yourself.
secondly, try not to be so self concience. the best thing to do when hanging out with new people especially when on a potential date, is to be yourself. if you like this guy, try to relate to him and just let things flow, but dont try too hard lol. be confident in yourself, dont listen to what others are saying and just get to know him and give him a chance to get to know you.
hope i helped and good luck :)
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