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i think its gone abit to far now
so theres this boy in the year abouve me in school an i like him quite alot. at first it was just the usual crush but now as time has gona on i actually love him, but the thig is hes got a girlfriend and no matter how hard a try to forget about him i just cant. i cheeck his facebook 5-6 times a day and even if it just says he friends with someone new i have to look who it is, my friends say im obsessed with him and i al ways use to just tell them that they were wrong but there not i think i have some sort of obsession with him that just wont go away, ive tryed liking someone else but it dont work. what shall i do ?
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forgetting about someone it hard. you may even have to delete him off of your facebook for a long while. talk to your friends. hang out with them talk to a few new guys make new friends.
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I know what you are going through forgeting about a guy is not the easiest thing to do but you just have too. I had to forgot about a guy and the only thing that helped was time. I didn't completely cut him out of my life because he is my friend. But I told myself to stop making all these ilusions in my head he dosnt like you and never will. I know that it is so hard to hear this but the only way you can forget him is understanding that you two will never be. There are many fish in the sea so don't
Worry about just one. I promise you one day the right guy will come you just have to wait. Also to try forgeting him join a club do a sport something to keep you busy do you won't be thinking about him.
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umm yeahh that's a little bit too obsessive hahaha.
he's with another girl, hun. so do yourself a favor and just step out of this. If you get involved, it will cause drama.
I know its hard to forget about a guy, i've had to try to forget about a guy and i know its hard. I've been in a situation where i liked a guy so much, then one day.. he stopped talking to me. no reason or excuse. he just stopped talking to me. like i never existed. its been a month and a half since we last talked and seen each other and i still think about him every day. but you know what? you gotta live with it. that's life.. you're going to feel this way. maybe even more than once. learn how to deal with it now, that way in the future, it won't be as hard
try to take your focus off of him (i know its hard). take everything that reminds you of him, out of your life. Ask your friend to change your facebook password, that way you won't be tempted to check his profile page every day. i'm serious about this one. have someone change your password. If you have a song(s) that remind you of him, take them off your ipod. any pictures, delete them.
then go out and have fun. have a girls night out, go party, join a club or sport, go to concerts, take up yoga, make a movie, etc. just have fun!!!
live everyday as if it was your last. no regrets.
also- if he has a girlfriend and doesn't show interest in you... it probably wasn't meant to be. i believe in fate
good luck!
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