orphans answered Friday January 29 2010, 2:01 pm: talk about it to a parent or a counslor the only thing you can do is move on and find someone else he would like that, alays keep him in your heart and dont mope around he would want you to get on with your life [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Friday January 29 2010, 11:20 am: I'm so sorry for your loss!
Its hard and there is no way to tell someone how to deal with loss or to make it hurt less. Everyone grieves differently and its going to take time for you to grieve. I lost my grandfather when I was 12 years old and I still miss him it took me a long time to finally come to terms with the fact he was gone. Right now because its so brand new its going to hurt a lot. Just grieve, hang out with friends, be with your family, and think about the memories that you ahd with them.
Again I'm sorry for your loss! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
karenR answered Friday January 29 2010, 7:45 am: I'm sorry to hear of your loss. any loss of a friend or loved one takes time to get over. You really can't make it hurt any less, you need to grieve. It is normal and just something you have to experience in order to accept it.
To make it a little easier on yourself take comfort from family and friends. They may not always know just the right thing to say, but being with them and talking about good times with your lost friend, will help. If you are a religious person, take comfort in your faith.
There is no set time on how long it takes to get over a loss. It varies. It should get easier to accept over time.
I think its important to mention also that it IS ok to accept it and move on. Moving on with living your life does NOT mean you didn't care. It is normal also. We never forget lost lost loved ones. They will reappear in memories forever. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
asknava answered Friday January 29 2010, 7:20 am: OK I'm sorry to get you excited about an answer, but BF could stand for Best Friend or Boy Friend...I know they will both hurt but I think you will get clearer answers if you specify. Peace. [ asknava's advice column | Ask asknava A Question ]
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