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break up??
Okay i have been faithful to my boyfriend for almost a year now and he keeps saying I'm cheating when i never cheat. But i do what us to break up i can't keep putting up with him and not having a life but i want him to break up with me but i don't want to cheat i just want out that's all but i can't bring myself to break up with him
How do i make him break up with me without hurting him?
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By being with him you're hurting yourself. Best thing to do is to pull him aside alone at a neutral place without too many people around and say something like "It hurts me to hear that you think I'm alwasycheating on you because I'm not. I don't like always defending myself because it's emotionally draining. When you always accuse me it makes me mad and I'm not happy. Trust is important in a relationship and since we don't have trust I can't be with you." Tell him how you feel. You will have to break up with him because if he thinks you're cheating and him and he still hasn't broken up with you chances are is that he's not going to. So take matters into your own hands!
Good Luck! ^_^
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You can't break up with him without hurting him. You'll just have to suck it up and do it. You already know this isn't a healthy relationship. You've just go to do it. Its like ripping off a bandaid. Do it quickly and the pain only lasts a little bit. Slowly and you'll torture yourself longer than you need to.
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You need to break up with him. You cannot try to manipulate him into ending the relationship for you, especialy if you want to cause as little pain to him as possible. You need to be the bigger person.
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