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my mom doesnt want me to go to san diego? San diego or san jose?
hi im a senior in high school and i live in san jose, and i would like to go to the san diego state after i transfer to the community college in san diego, and my cousin lives there and i already talked to her about me going to college and living with her in san diego and she said sure i can do that, but recently, my cousin is getting married and my mom said "you shouldnt go since your cousin in san diego is going to get married and i dont think her fiance would like that" Im not sure why she said this but what should i do? i really want to go to school in san diego even for the first 2 years so i can get used to the place and all what would it be better?
A.) go to community college in san jose for 2 years and transfer to SDSU?
B.) go to community college in san diego and after 2 years transfer to SDSU?
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Go to community college in SJ for two years. Why put unneeded expense and stress on others, including yourself? Then you can transfer to SD. ]
I think if you really want to go to that school then you should go early stay with your cousin for a wild find a decent job and find a cheap apartment or something. and if you are going to be to busy just talk to your cousin and the fiance and ask them upfront what they think ]
I agree with your mom. If your cousin is gettin married, she will want to be starting her marriage throughout the next two years (and from then on).
I think you should go to the community college in San Jose and transfer later.
While you are attending college in San Jose, you can save up for an apartment or for a dorm for when you transfer to SDSU.
At the same time, you can visit your cousin and her husband every once in a while and start to get a feel for the area than.
Good luck! Hope I helped. If you ever need anything else, I'm here! ]
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