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how do i get rid of him without getting hurt by him
Well i got myself an a class loser who has wrecked my car stoled money from me lived off my disability check broke my finger threatens to burn my house down shoot me destroy my property hurt my family and what few friends i have left he has been in prison for most of his life and of course he was never guilty ha ha. the police wont help until he hurts me, my house and belongings are up for grabs unless they catch him in the act of destroying them, believe me i have known him for 9 yrs and he just dont give a damn, oh yea im in a wheelchair so running is kinda out of the picture. by the way i have 2 teens at home that adore the hell out of him, they have no clue. so let me hear something good guys please.
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File for a restraining order. Then, find a family member who is willing to take you in and help you move and get the hell out of wherever you are. Tell your teens the story and explain the situation. Avoid him as much as possible.
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Your first priority should be your safety and the safety of your children. You need to get to a womens' shelter. Take the kids if you can; they're old enough to have the situation explained to them. Many shelters can come and pick you up, especially if you have a disability.
Shelter staff will have the resources you need to get your voice heard and get the help you require. It won't be counted against you for running. He is not legally entitled to your things because he abused you out of your own house.
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the police are soo freakn useless!!i want to just start off by saying,dont ever think that being in a wheelchair is a weakness.you are stronger than him and wheelchair or not has nothing to do with beating this monster!you going to get rid of him ok!you will and he WONT ever hurt you.
ok first off id start by telling your teens whats happening and to just be causcious.ask them not to act different around him because he might turn on you.just let them know whats going on because technically theyr in danger too.
next step is to stop fearing him.hes threatned you and yes thatd scare anyone but you need to stay strong.stay stronger than him. do not fear him because thats exactly what he wants.do not fight back but just do not fear him because thats when hell have utter control over you.
next step is keep all evidence of threats. i know its hard but just try your best.if he emails you anyy threats then save those emails.try to record anything he says to you.if he hurts you then take photos and keep them!i mean anything even if its small keep it as evidence.
next step is to NOT wait until soemthing happens. go back to the police.dont leave until theyv tried to help you.Talk to them and say that you are not going to wait until this monster beats you to death so that they (police) can do their job. tell them that he has done soemthing,hes threatned to kill you and that your here asking for help!keep trying.keep buggin them.ask them for a restraining order against that monster.
if this doesnt work then i advice you take this to court.i think there are some free lawyers around, find one, a good one, and take this to court.if you loose then you have a right of appeal and try again.its called fighting for your life and for those you love because technically they all in danger.the evidence you have will help you win the case and he will not be able to come near you.if he does then hell go back to the doghouse he came from.
if non of this works then get family to help you disapear.get out of that house, take the teens with you with need be or get them to help you move out of the house and just get as far as possible from that asswipe!!
im here for you if you ever need anything.just email me and ill try help you as much as possible.i hope this gave you some sort of picture of what your going to do.
(sia.d.sus@hotmail.com)
keep safe!be brave!and dont give up!
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First tell your family what's happening also tell the two teens that he isn't the type of person that they should be adoring try and avoid him as much as you can the less your near him the better make sure your family doesn't go outside as much and if they do make sure it isn't far since you don't want to risk them getting hurt and making things worst then they already are tell the police
that you'd like them to protect you almost as if you are in protective custody say that without them protecting you he has a better chance of hurting you :)
Good luck!
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First of all, talk to your kids, family and friends and tell them all about this. For one you need the support, second, they have been threatened too and need to be aware.
I know you think the police won't do much. They probably can't toss him in jail unless he actually does something. HOWEVER, you can call them and arrange for an officer to be around and perhaps escort him from your home. Explain that he has a history of violent behavior, you have children in the home and you want him gone. Tell them you plan to throw him out, that you are in a wheelchair, and you expect trouble. At the very least they may offer some advice on how to go about getting it done. It would really be great if you could have family, friends and maybe a couple of neighbors there too.
Hopefully with an audience he will go without giving you any trouble. If he does, well you have plenty of witnesses including officers.
I don't know if this plan would work, but I'd certainly give it a try. Best of luck to you and your family.
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