|
confused
16/f
why do i find it so hard to talk to my parents about problems going on in my life as far as friends and relationships go? im really close to them and tell them alot! but for some reason i just dont like to tell them anytihng about my social life. i want to but for some reason i feel ashamed to talk to them about this.
also my mood has been changing alot latley. im tired, less motivated in school, and im fighting with friends a lot more often. and now im growing apart from one of my best friends, i feel abandoned. help i really dont know whats going on with me! this isnt like me at all!! im changing into some one i dont even know or like!!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
honey you are 16 and the hormones are putting you in a bind of emotional twists, it is a little harder to talk to your parents now because the problems are a little more personal and a whole lot more emotional then when you were a child, just get the courage and talk to your parents or parent whoever makes you more comfortable, remember they love you and you can trust them to help you through this.
]
It actually helps to express your feelings to someone else. I told my mom a lot of my problems and I also told her that I may have mental problems. She bashed me the wrong way and I was so hurt. When I have problems, the same thing always happens so I express it to someone else. I'm actually going through the same phase too. The best way to resolve this is too just talk to someone. The more you hide it, the more it's going to eat you inside so just let it all out. It really makes a difference.
]
Watch your diet, a person's stress level rises when you dont get proper nutrition. This is usually the case but not always. Treat it as soon as possible before it gets any worse.
]
You probably don't want to tell your parents about your social life because your scared they'll disapprove??
Mood changes occur a lot in people, your only 16 and your still trying to find out who you are and your place in life. Your still growing up.
People change, therefore they change friends, they change their lifestyles. Your not going to be the same person forever, you'll come to find out what you like as a person!!
Just remember that it's not always you who changes, others change as well!!
As far as your parents, just start of slow by saying you had an argument with one of your friends... ect.. you'll eventually open up!! The person you want to be is one who is close to their family.
You can choose your friends but you can't choose your family!!
]
More Questions: |