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I am 13 female and i want a boyfriend... Or atleast a kiss. Is it bad that i JUST want a kiss and maybe not a relationship YET? But i have no one to kiss. I don't want it to be anyone at school though. And where can i go that's DECENT. I have never been kissed and have never had a boyfriend. Is 13 too young to be kissed? thanx!
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Its not bad that you just want a kiss without a relationship--its common. If you're asking if you're too young to kiss, then you probably are. It's not really an age thing, just when you're ready. I haven't kissed anyone either and im 15. Im glad that im waiting for that special moment. Your first kiss should be a memorable moment, no matter how long you have to wait. I understand what you are going through, though. I have a want to kiss someone aswell and the guys at my school just dont understand why i wont kiss THEM. I think you should wait until the moment is perfect. You should think about joining clubs or sport teams to meet guys. You'll find the right guy soon so dont put too much pressure on yourself to kiss right away. And dont let anyone pressure you, they're your lips right? :)
Hope I helped!!!!
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No I was 15 and in high school before I had my first kiss. If you really want your first kiss that bad have a small get together with friends; boys and girls and play truth or dare. Ask a friend to dare you to kiss a guy.
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dottie4
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i remember how it was when i was 13. there was so much pressure to get your first kiss, have a boyfriend, etc. that was what EVERY girl wanted. but to be honest, i don't even remember my first kiss, it was probably around when i was 12 or 13. i just remember the first time i made out, which was when i was 14. i wouldn't worry about getting your first kiss. don't put too much pressure on yourself! it's okay to want a kiss and not a relationship. you're still young. just join clubs and sports you're interested in to meet more guys! try to talk to guys in your classes too. if you don't want to kiss a guy from your school try to meet guys at the mall, if you have any girl friends from other schools ask them to introduce you to their guy friends, etc.
xo heartless
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It is not too young! I know soo many people being kissed at an even youger age. I'm also 13, so I understand, and I'm also unkissed. So if you really want it, you should join activities, like sports or clubs, outside of school and you are bound to find your perfect match! Keep your hopes up, because he will find you, but you have to try and find him!
Good Luck,
Hills Masson
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Hey there okay I agree with the last answer completely :)
There is soo much pressure on people your age today to have bfs and kiss guys etc. it was the same for me and im 16 now.
My first kiss I think i was 13 or 14 (see how I cant even remember!?)
and I was basicly forced into at a disco it was horrible not a good thing to remember.
Dont put too much pressure on yourself and dont let anyone else do it either.
your still only 13 trust me you have laaaods of time.
start making more friends with guys and devoloping close friendships first then when your not wanting so bad or expecting it to happen thats when it will. you might devolop something more with a guy.
please dont kiss for the wrong reasons or rush into a relationship take your time and enjoy being young have fun cos with all the fun stuff in a relationship it does require a huge amount of effort and time and its not all perfect all the time!
I hope I helped much <3
Jess 16/f
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well you don 't always wanna rush things .
i got my first kiss at 14 by a really sweet guy .
and i 'm very happy i waited .
because i hear all my friends first kiss stories
and they 're so boring .
they 're like 'yeah ,mine was on truth or dare .' <-how gay .
i love telling people my story cause its cute and romantic .
so its not always so horrible to wait . (:
just throwin' that out there . (:
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