Razhie answered Saturday November 7 2009, 3:29 pm: Sex drive is different from lubrication. I’m not certainly which one in your problem here.
The sex drive is about your level of desire. Lubrication doesn’t necessarily have to with your desire. A female might want sex, but have difficulty being naturally lubricated enough to enjoy it, just the way a man might want sex, but have physical difficulty remaining erect.
Wanting more sex, or wanting sex more, won’t necessarily make you more naturally lubricated. It might, but it might not. Everyone’s body is different, and every body has its own natural limitations and quirks.
Taking your time, engaging in more foreplay, and other sexual activities that are NOT penetration beforehand might help. Talking to your partner about what really gets you going, will always help sex be better. But fundamentally, lube is a good thing for women. There are hundreds of brands out there for you to try. If you have the drive (the desire) to have sex, but physically have difficulty staying wet, then make the investment in time and money to find a product you like. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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