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sex lasts 15 minutes?
So im going to sound very naiive, but im 20/f and hes 24/m. He is my boyfriend of over a year and i lost my virginity to him a couple of months ago. But, sex takes less than 25 minutes. usually less, bc foreplay is for liek 5-8 minutes, so then sex is only like 15 minutes long. Im pretty sure somethings wrong. he stops, not me. so he comes and stops, but i cant really orgasm yet because i feel like its really short. can other people tell me how long sex takes, because idk if he has a problem or if i just want him to keep going haha. thank you!
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How long do you expect it to last? 25, even 15 minutes is actually a really long time, so I don't see what your complaining for. Just have him give you oral before sex. Practice makes perfect. ;)
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dottie4
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Why do you say you're 20 and your question says you're 14?
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To make him last longer, change positions or wait until the second round because it will be harder for him to get off the second time around.
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TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS.
Sex can take five hours.
Sex can take five minuttes.
Both situations are totally natural and normal.
It's about choice, and about what each person likes.
In order for your boyfriend to do what you like, you are going to have tell him what that is.
So think about it. Really, think about it, before you talk about it. Think about what you'd like to do, what parts of foreplay you'd like to take longer. Think about what positions you really enjoy. Think about what sort of fantasies are things you really like.
Then talk to him about it.
There is no physical problem with 15 minutes of sexual intercourse. Some guys can't last even that long. There is nothing wrong with his body.
The only thing you two are doing wrong, is not talking about what you are doing ;)
The problem, is that you aren't getting what you want and need. That is a problem you are going to have to take some ownership of, start talking to him about, and bring some ideas to the table.
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