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Best Friend?
Im 17 and a female. So, I have a best friend but we have had bad fights throughout our friendship and almost stopped being friends and it ended up happening once and then we ended up becoming friends again. But she met a guy last year and they ended up dating. The 3 of us all became close! Except for it seems to me that she likes him better now and wants to be with him more even though im her best girl friend! Her bf has even told me that she said she loves him more!? she shouldnt just dump me for a guy right? she hasnt exactley but we have been talking less and I'm not sure what to do. It does kinda hurt but I dont think she realizes it. Even though shes important to me i think I'm gonna let her go. It's already happening so why not? Or no? It just feels thats whats going to happen. advice please?!
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It's very easy when in a relationship to lose sight of things other than the one your with. I think that if you feel like your slipping away from her you should tell her that. In the end you two will both just have to make more time for eachother.
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well honestly if i were you i would tell your friend the way you feel and if they dont listen to you then shes probably not the best person to be hanging otu with.
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I'm in the same situation as you at the moment, but with me it's 3 of my closest friends all getting boyfriends and me being left out.
What you have to do is confront your friend.
Tell her how you feel.
If she's really your best friend, she'll understand.
If she doesn't then maybe you should consider finding a new best friend.
I think your friend needs to be reminded of the girl code, mates before dates, or chicks before dicks.
You're friend could also be blinded by love. Or maaybe her boyfriend is influencing her to act like this.
Whatever her reason is, you should talk to her and hopefully everything will work out in the end and you'll get your friend back.
Good luck
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Hay best friend...Look I completely understand
how you feel in all of this but and it sound a little like the love bug that got your friend caught up in time so if you really care for your friend the way you do then you will find away to talk to her...sometimes let something could be the best thing to do but it can also be a bad movement in your life so just be wise about your choices...but do me a favor and tell me how things goes with you and your friend
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I wouldn't start a fight over it. Its very possible that in this point in their relationship, they need to spend more time together. This could be happening because the three of you are such good friends that when together its 'friendship time'. They need relationship time too. thats the important thing about being a couple. Don't you think you'd be grossed out if you were with them and they started being all cutesy and kissing and junk. They need time to whisper sweet nothings in each others ears and/or other things you don't want to see/hear. They are probably doing that for your sake. Hence the term 'Get a room'.
Good Luck,
Lonley_Girl
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