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16/f
So, my friend got fingered the other night and she said it hurt really bad and it was only one finger but it hurt a lot. Her boyfriend told her she was really tight and he didnt even stick his whole finger in her, just a little and she said it still hurt her really bad. What should she do?
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Its a good thing you are concerned over this experience that your friend went through it can also benefit you.
it is possible that he might have well...given her an indian burn..sorry thats the best way i can describe it. It more than likeley happened because she might have been nervous, unsure, uncomfortable, and it happened so unexpectantly. My opinion is that ...Slow down relax dont rush into sex take some thought into how and why things happend. The Bad thing and horrible mentallity in young men is that oh you put your finger there push and it feels good...but as your friend is sadly finding out it isnt that pleasant. time time and again time is what you need slwo down relax if you cant relax and feel comfortable dont do it theres aways tomorrow theres no rush into having a scary and painful experience. If her vulva is bleeding or gets irritated seek medical advice. I ALWAYS recommend females encouraging and teaching their lovers to have good personal hygeine a guy with freshly cut nails or untrimmed nails or Dirty Hands can introduce pain and unwanted bad bacterial into your body. I hope this helps if ti does not please let me know before you grade me
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Your friend needs to speak up and tell him he was being too rough. She has to tell and or show him what she finds pleasurable. This activity doesn't have to involve penetration either. Clitoral stimulation is fine. If there is penetration it's best if she's lubricated or it will and can hurt her. That's why she's experiencing pain.
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Yeah if she's a virgin then it would hurt. The first time you have anything up there, even a tampon, it hurts. I agree it does also hurt if you haven't had finger or sex in a long time. It can also hurt if the vagina is dry. This can be resolved with lubricant or foreplay.
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If she is a virgin, then it most likely will hurt a little bit the first couple of times.
If she isn't a virgin, it could be she hasn't had sex in a while.
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