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how do i go about this...?
17/f
so, in my one class, there is this one boy, who is really good looking, and he seems like the type of boy that i would have a lot of similar interests with. (music, art.) anyway, i told the two girls i sit next to and talk to frequently in there how i thought he was hot, and so the one girl acted very.. middle schoolish.. & went and called this other girl skylar over, and she was like oh skylar! kendall thinks chris is hot! and they were like SHOUTING this conversation, and so, skylar had chris come over and hand me a paper, and i was so embarrassed, because i thought he heard. well she ended up telling him that i liked him or whatever, and the next day skylar was by my table, and she says loudly.."oh guess who is coming to give you your paper!" & i was like ughhh. & usually he just puts the piece of paper on my desk, and continues, but this time, he held it out, and i had to turn to face him and grabbed it & me being shy i just smiled, and so then he hit his head on the cabinet and me and the girl that sits next to me started laughing, so he stood at the end of the table, and was like "so does anyone else need paper?" (we all needed paper, he knew it too, because we were going to have to draw him, & it was the paper we were using.) & so the one girl was like "Yes? don't we all need it?" & he was like "oh yeah." & he stood there for another second, and then walked away.
it was really awkward, and i'm not sure what to make of it. in your opinion of what i told you, do you think he may be interested? a lot of my friends think he is, but i don't know. & if he is, what do i say next (keep in mind i'm really shy.) & if you don't think he is & probably finds me repulsive.. what do i do? just ignore him?
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This kind of sounds like a romance movie. I think that he really likes you and if you don't persue his interests then he might think that he is trying for nothing. In my opinion, you should get his phone number and talk to him. Let him know your interests and let him share his. After a while, if you feel a connection, go for it. If not then you can still be really close friends. Be sure not to do what I did. I tried to look on the internet on things to get a woman interested, and how to make a girl interested in you and it all back fired. I hope that you can be happier with him then I was with my girlfriend...
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Next time, don't tell these girls anything.
From this situation, it is very unclear if he likes you or not. He's probably flattered that someone likes him. If he knows you like him and he doesn't do anything, then (1) he's shy or scared (2) he's not interested.
Don't listen to friends unless they are 100% sure, from his mouth, he likes you. My friends told me for a long time some guy liked me, but it turned out he didn't. It was very awkward.
Don't ignore him. I would be cool about it. Just talk to him normally. He might not know you very well, so that could be another reason he's not asking you out. If a dance is coming up, maybe you can just let him know you want to go.
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Well its hard to tell because that girl kind of made a big deal about it so that makes it a little awkward. From what you have written I can't really make out if he likes you or not its hard to tell. I would say maybe talk to him and get to know him. Maybe even ask him if you guys can hang out sometime whether it be just you two or maybe to make it a little more comfortable a group of people.
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