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"the look"


Question Posted Friday September 25 2009, 3:50 pm

can someone please explain "the look" to me, my friend described it as 'a look you get from a guy that likes you, his face changes, he looks more happy and his eyes, he just gets this crazy look in his eyes that screams I LIKE YOUUU!' i dont see it though, i see just a look, like hey whats up haha. she is a relationship whiz and it's crazy how right she is i just dont know what to look for when he looks at me. so can someone explain "the look". answer: if i get "the look" does that mean he likes me? what do i look at when he's looking at me? into his eyes?

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TimothyDanger answered Friday September 25 2009, 9:57 pm:
I'm assuming your friend is hot. I say this because she can get guys to give her "the look" often enough to know when it happens.
The truth is, the "look" only applies to maybe 40% of dudes. The sad thing is that every guy reacts to a girl different (just like you ladies) There are some guys who are quiet (they are much more apt to give you said "look" because they want to hear you talk and are interested in what you have to say) There are guys who are loud and boisterous who will give you the "hey whats up" more often than not. And sometimes it may seem like he's not interested when he is, or it may seem like he is interested but maybe he isn't.
Doesn't make sense huh? It's not supposed to.

Here's what you do. Like a science experiment, you need a control sample. So watch how he treats other girls. If he pays lots of attention and talks to lots of girls, then that's just his nature, but if he only behaves that way around you, you may want to pay a little more attention to that hair and outfit...

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hotpotato answered Friday September 25 2009, 9:42 pm:
Biologically speaking, when people see someone they're attracted to, their pupils are supposed to dilate. That's what happens in the animal world.

Otherwise, I don't really know what people talk about. I guess if he's looking at you but not staring in a creepy way.

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superhal answered Friday September 25 2009, 7:18 pm:
when a guy likes you, he'll want to be with you, like around you. But, he'll be a little reserved at first, or a little too much. It's our stupid errors that make us feel we have no chance.

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animelove answered Friday September 25 2009, 4:29 pm:
Try looking for bright vigilant eyes, concentrait on his stare, if he stares dirrectly into your eyes and is smiling as he talks, chances are he may fancy you. Then again if he's much more shy he may look away when you make dirrect contact, but if he speaks to you and stares when you're not looking dirrectly at him but feel him looking at you (and you will know if he is) then this is another example. A guy will look you head to toe, when you're not well aware of it, a form of "cheking you out" (lol) I think a true guy that really likes a girl will most often smile instantly as soon as he sees her, it's unavoidable!
He'll pay attention to your face when you speak, and not your chest or anything else, goes for lips too hah.
Look at his eye brows too, arched is a good sign of enthusiasm, when he speaks if they jump as he speaks and is smiling, that's a dead give away!
Hope this helped =)

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