ok so i recently became really good friends with this guy. and i really really like him. the thing is that he told me he's still in love with his ex. but then last time we meat up we ended up snuggeling up in his bed (cause i was cold) and in the last 10 minutes he layed his head on my shoulder and i layed my head on his <3 and before that he kept touching my hair and played with it. and when i said that im cold he took my hand and 'felt' it. and when i felt my cheeks to check i have a temperature he did too. and the lights where off and we were listening to piano music. and he was really near and kept staring at me. we didnt kiss though haha. and today in school he stroked my hair again (it's quite long).
thing is that he talks about his ex alot (at least in the beginning of our 'meet up' ) & he fancied her for the past 2 years. but i just moved to this city 2 month ago and we became good friends.
and hes best friends with LOADS of girls. so i wonder if the whole thing was just friendsshiply. i'll meet up with him again soon & im just not sure if he fancies me back. what should i do? i dont wanna ask him though (and please dont tell me to!) i really like him, i think ive never liked anyone this much. (and he told me that he thinks his ex likes him back again, but that was at the beginning as well)
what nooow?
Additional info, added Friday September 25 2009, 1:13 pm: and he thinks that i still fancy MY ex too because i act like it out of jealousy when he talks about HIS ex :/. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? One_Whisper answered Friday September 25 2009, 7:01 pm: If you to fancy each others ex than clearly you both have unresolved feelings for someone eles. If he is still talking about her in a way that makes you jealous then obviously the guy still cares for her. The truth is you can't truely love someone and devote yourself too a person if you are thinking and you fancy of someone eles.
Clearly he still likes his ex, now you said she may like him back again. It is up to the both of you if you want to try and have a relationship but concidering the fact that he cares for her and she may possibly care for him as well should raise the red flag. [ One_Whisper's advice column | Ask One_Whisper A Question ]
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