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Question Posted Friday August 21 2009, 7:20 pm

so i gave my boyfriend a bj for the first time...he has alot of hair down there (he said he'd shave it next time for me) but yeah i didn't want to say anything but it smelt like b.o. down there....i mean, it was gross...i mean i don't expect it to smell and taste like cherries but idk is it suppose to smell like that? or is it just cause of him sweating and the hair or is that just the way cum smells? i didn't really mind the taste i just can't stand the smell...should i say something?

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hotpotato answered Saturday August 22 2009, 11:24 am:
He definitely should shower first beforehand.

Also, some more tips.. I answered a question on what guys taste like and how to improve it: (copy and paste)

"Yes. The ejaculate may taste very bitter/salty and smell like bleach, depending on the guy's diet and lifestyle habits. Make sure he stays hydrated. Someone who ingests lots of red meat, caffeine, alcohol, or cigarettes will not taste as good as someone who eats a lot of fruits to make it sweeter. Keep away from vegetables like asparagus, garlic, onions, and broccoli. The fruits to keep in mind are citrus fruits like pineapple, oranges, and lemons. He has to keep a habit of eating healthily because the taste won't suddenly be different in just one day. It will take at least like 2 weeks, maybe.

You could also keep a mint/something containing menthol in your mouth while you're doing it, so he gets a cool sensation and you maintain yummy, minty breath lol."

^You guys can always use female flavored condoms or flavored lube too as another option.

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asknava answered Saturday August 22 2009, 5:54 am:
AMEN RAHZIE! That's all I have to say AMEN! You too babe...you shower too and then y'all can have a party!

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Razhie answered Friday August 21 2009, 9:14 pm:
Sure. Ask him to shower first even.

People sweat. We just do. And when we sweat we smell. That's a fact of life that can't be escaped. However, that doesn't mean you should feel obligated to go down on a guy who has been wearing the same pair of boxers for the last 9 hours, walked and maybe even ran around outside in 'em, espcailly in the summer heat. It's fair to say 'Dude, you've been wearing these clothes all day and you is stinky. Go clean up!'

You wouldn't want to make out with a guy who hadn't brushed his teeth since yesterday either. That's fair.

Just be friendly and respectful about it. Tell him, in an upbeat and positive way, that blow jobs would be a lot more fun for you if he took a shower first.

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