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i guess im not exciting.


Question Posted Monday August 17 2009, 9:32 pm

i was talking to a friend and she said i wasnt exciting.
it kinda really hurt my feelings.
cuz when im texting i guess im boring.
i was perfectly content with my life.
but now it like all changes. :/
any ways to be more exciting?


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staceyxlove answered Thursday August 20 2009, 12:17 pm:
Awww your friend shouldn't of said that to you. What makes her think she's exciting!? Boring people get bored! I guess i'm like you sometimes. I can't be bothered texting so I just text whatever. Don't try and be exciting, and definitely don't let this girl effect you. If she wants to think you aren't exciting - let her think that! I'm sure you're exciting to many other people.

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jm93 answered Tuesday August 18 2009, 1:01 am:
I've had that said to me sometimes. Honestly, it's not like their doing anything to make the conversation more fun either. Obviously he/she doesn't know how to be exciting in a converstion either if he/she can't think of stuff to talk about also.

I usually just get over it. Mainly because, texting is not really the best way to communicate. If you feel that you're fine the way you are, then you are! Don't let a friend change your mind. If it gets boring, just stop texting them!

Way's to be more exciting?
Talk about a movie you've seen or want to see.
Talk about a cute guy, boyfriend, and/or crush.
Talk about problems.
Talk about clothes.
Talk about shopping.
Talk about school starting and having to wake up early :( haha.

You can pretty much talk about anything you want.

Just remember, be content with yourself.

Hope I helped :)

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Tammy999 answered Monday August 17 2009, 11:16 pm:
I know it hurts when someone tells you you're not exciting, but you have to remember that exciting means something different to everyone. You really should not let this get you down. People will say hurtful things to you the rest of your life, and if you pay attention to them all, life will get pretty hard. Just because your friend was having a bad day or moment doesn't mean that what was said is true.

If you really want to be more exciting, I'm probably not the person to tell you how, but I do think that if you're talking about something you care about, then you will be excited and that leads to exciting. Good luck, dear.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Monday August 17 2009, 10:54 pm:
Don't worry about this at all! Most texting conversations aren't the most exciting thing to begin with. If you are content with your life, you do not need to change yourself. One mean thing a friend says doesn't mean you need to become some crazy adventurous individual. Keep being you.

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Bolt answered Monday August 17 2009, 10:43 pm:
Awh babe. Don't let one person make you feel like that. Don't let anyone make you feel like that. And key words "WHEN I AM TEXTING". Uhm. Wow. Who cares? Obviously your whiny little friend.

Kyle

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