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umm.
okay well. i keep making excuses for a guy that wants to come over.
i think he has a girlfriend.
i dont think he should come over if he has a girlfriend.
but im nervous if he doesnt have one.
help!
i cant keep making up excuses.
its makin me feel really bad.
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Instead of hesitating just ask him if he got a girl.
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Ask him. It's that simple.
And if he has a girlfriend, leave him alone and back off. If he doesn't, go for it and have fun.
-Laura (17-f)
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just ask him if he has a girlfriend or not... cos if he doesnt he sounds interested in getting to know you and eventually he'll stop asking to hang out.
when your chatting at school and he asks to come over just causually say "do you think your girlfriend would mind?" see what he says. you'll probably call him off guard but you need to know before your friendship goes any further. xxsal
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The next time he asks to come over just playfully say "would your girlfriend be ok with that?" If he says yes tell him you don't feel comfortable having him over and if he says he doesn't have one than invite him over.
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If you don't want him to come over, then tell him. He doesn't have the right to be there, and if you don't want him there, then tell him that.
Stop making excuses & tell him straight out you don't want him over your house. If he asks why, just tell him. Even if he doesn't have a girlfriend, I wouldn't let him over.
He keeps asking you if he can come over, and that's already making you nervous. He can't seem to take NO for an answer, so that sounds like bad news to me.
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Just ask him if he has a girlfriend. Its okay, and if he does then he would come over your house as a friend, nothing more :-) its fine. If he does have a girlfriend, then he should ask her first if it would be okay for you guys to chill, because she might not be okay with it. Do what you are comfortable with, dont feel like you have to make excuses. Just say, "yeah you can come over that would be fun, but is your girlfriend going to be okay with it?" if he has a girlfriend then he will tell you, if he doesnt he will say, I dont have a girlfriend. then you can say, oh you dont? I was always under the impression that you did have a girlfriend :-)
It will all work out dont worry
Good luck!!!
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