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Trust
So my boyfriend is moving.we've ben together for 9 months so this is tough. so me and him had some beer rite and it was only because i was really upset. and my clothes ended up coming off.
and i got caught by the cops and my parents find out. i told them i was sorry and i never wanted to do it again but they just won't give me the chance to prove it to them.
How do I make this better?
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show them that you can be trusted start doing chores and offer to do stuff but dont take on to musch stuff at once because youll only just get strest and dont worry about your parents im shure ther just shocked :) xx
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Your parents arent going to be upset forever not to worry! Trust me when I say go out of your way to be extra happy and nice to them. Time is the biggest healer in the world, just let the situation linger for a little bit, right now its too fresh for them to forget about it. If I were you I would start by just simply hanging out with friends at the mall or something simple like that, that will start to build the trust between you guys again. Good luck!!!!! let me know if you have any other questions or concerns :-)
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You have to give them time. I'm sure they're really upset, and there's nothing you can do or say to make it better.
Obviously, be on your best behavior for a while. Stay out of trouble, come home when they tell you to, check in when they want you to, etc.
Then, after a few weeks or so, tell them that you want to talk to them. Sit down with them and tell them that you KNOW there is nothing you can say or do to make them trust you, and you KNOW that you can't take it back, but you're young and bound to make mistakes. Everybody makes mistakes, and it sounds like you really did learn from yours. Let your parents know this. Tell them you learned from it, and you won't be making the same mistake again.
That's really all you can personally do. Over time, things will get better. Time really does heal things.
If you need more help, send me an inbox and I'll be more than glad to help you out some more :)
-Laura (17-f)
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you have to regain their trust.
when you say you'll do something, do it.
when you'll say you'll call them when you get to your friends house.
do it!
do anything to make them pleased.
hope i helped(:
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hey there,
im sorry to hear about your boyfriend.
okay, so you made a mistake it happens we all do theres nothing you can do now but move on youve said your sorry now all you can do is just proove to your parents that you are by simply not doing something like that again they will come around eventually,just show them you can be mature.
they will start to trust you again soon it might take a while but it will come about.
you just have to be careful for the meantime not to do anything to make them think otherwise.
Hope I helped =)
much <3
Jess
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