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How do i get over a break up?
The most amazing boy i've ever had in my entire life, my dream guy, just broke up with me.
Every time i look at him i feel like bursting into tears, and i cant help but still have feelings for him.
How do i get over him?
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when you think about him, tell yourself your over him.
listen to songs that trash ex boyfriends (sounds lame i know, but its kinda funny)
insted of looking at whats wright about him, look at his flaws.
and when you look at him, just tell yourself you can do better, cause really, any boy who can destroy a girl and not feel bad, doesnt and never did deserve her anyways.
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I have found, firsthand, that the best way to get over a gut is to do the following:
Step 1: Have a really good cry.
- When my boyfriend and I broke up, I was super upset (like words cannot describe how bad I felt). But I told myself that I wasn't going to let it flip my entire world upside down. So I let myself have one really good cry, and then I told myself I'm going to start moving on. Which brings me to...
Step 2: Friends = lifesavers.
- Go to the mall and buy yourself something nice (don't over spend, though. Just something small, but nice. Like a new outfit or purse!) Or go see a movie, or out to dinner or something! Don't mope around your house all day doing nothing.
Step 3: Talk about it.
- It feels SO good to let it all out. Sit down with somebody you trust (for me, it was my mom) and just spill your heart out. Again, don't let it ruin your life or impact you too much.
Step 4: Move ON!
- Stop talking to him for a while (you need to give yourself time to get OVER him). Don't stalk his Facebook, spend time with other people, and don't even waste time TALKING about him.
Honestly, it's going to take time, and it's going to be hard, but once you get over him you will feel SO much better. I promise you that this guy is NOT worth wasting all of your time on, and that there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Go out and find a new guy that treats you right and is WORTH your time. Forget about this guy ASAP. You're young and have plenty of time for guys. And, as one of my favorite books puts it: The first boy is always the hardest.
Best of luck! :)
-Laura (17-f)
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Time.
Break ups are always hard, and you need to give yourself time to get over it. Don't keep your feelings bottled up. Cry when you feel like crying, and eventually you will be sick of being sad. At that point in time, you should move on and get out in the world.
I'm sorry, go hang out with your friends when you are sick of being sad, and eventually you WILL be okay.
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*sigh* My darling i am from the same ordeal you are going through, it takes time to get over your lover no matter how long you have been dating. You will heal in time, just try to be occupied all the time and you will see! Engage yourself in Sports, Reading novels, go to movies, hire movies OR if you are still at school try to do group disccusion with your school mates and spend more time with your friends, just to keep your mind away from thinking of him.
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It will just take time. Everything happens for a reason. Hang out with your Friends for a while! it always helps. Dont worry he'll realize what a great person he lost dont worry you'll be fine
-helper 32074 =P
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