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self esteem
my best friend is very pretty(no homo)i am also considered very attractive but when we are at school and i am beside her i dont feel attractive at all.most of the boys like her but they like me too.i always feel like i am in second place which is considered to be a loser in my eyes.my friend has a cute shape and a pretty face,i have an average shape and i am also the biggest girl in my clique.i used to be so confident in myself now i don't know what happend.i act arrogant to hide my real self.how do i make myself feel more comfortable in my skin and how can i talk to her and let her know how i feel?(13/f)
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Everyone feels insecure sometimes. So don't worry your not the only one. Just do things that make you happy. If your not happy with yourself, change that. Go running! =) Running makes me feel a lot better about myself, I feel healthier when I do it. Plus if I have a lot on my mind, running always seems to help. Especially if your mad about something. Once I come back from running I just feel a lot better all together. Act confident and soon you wont be acting. It'll just come naturally. Everyones beautiful in their own way. Different guys like different things when it comes to girls. Well good luck with everything. Hope I helped even the slightest bit. Take care now.
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well for one you need to learn to live your self and stop trying to compare your self with others you need to look in the mirror and say im a pretty person i cant let any thing get to me you just need to work on thing with your self being cofedent in your self get out thier take a walk go shoping these are ways to injoying your self you get your hair done goget a tan go to the gym see when you do things for your self you love your self so dont put your self done it makes you worry about alot of things always try somthing new try wearing heels learn to walk in then learn to become a lady these are a way to make a better you hope this helps
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This is because of how you think of yourself. I bet before when you were confident you didnt have a problem walking next to your best friend huh?
Well tell yourself that your beautiful. I know this sounds cocky but it works. Tell yourself how great you are. If Be CONFIEDENT AGAIN. if you've done it before you can do it again. Weight doesnt matter. just because your the biggest girl in your clique doesnt mean anything. Someone has to always be the smallest or the biggest or the prettiest. Thats just how cliques work, dont worry about it i promise you shouldnt care what other people think because it really doesnt matter. You are who you choose to be and no one else matters. Hope i helped =] If you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me personally =]
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