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help with dd
i like this guy and everyone says im better than him but i like him alot .. i want to tell him i like him but how should i do it? either phone or person and how do i tell him? n what do i say?
thanks . i really need help :)
loveboys
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It shouldn't matter what other people think as long as you like him. I would flirt with him first before just flat out telling him I like him. Send him the signals like touching his arm while your talking, and laughing at his jokes. Guys love it when you act interested in what they have to say, even if your not. Over a few weeks time if he returns your signals, it probably means he likes you so then I'd ask him if he wants to hang out and do something.
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dottie4
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Well tell him how ever it makes you most comfortable. But you just need to come out with it. Because beating around the bush doesn't get anything done. Just tell him you have feelings for him and you were wondering if he felt the same. That if he doesn't feel the same it is ok you were just wondering. Or something to that affect.
Good Luck!!
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As a general rule, I wait until I'm fairly sure that the guy I like returns the feelings before I put myself out there. This isn't something that all women believe in, but it's generally a way for me not to get hurt or put myself out there unnecessarily. That being said, I would wait until you guys have flirted a significant amount before telling him at all.
Regarding the best time to do so, it entirely depends on your relationship. I can tell you, in any case, that you don't want to stage it or make a big deal of telling him. If your relationship is primarily over the phone or via text, just subtly slip it into conversation. For example, if you're talking about an after school sport that you play, you could casually say "you should come to one of my meets sometime. You could see how awesome I am, and I'd also get to spend some extra time with you".
If you do most of your talking in person, you could say the same thing. Otherwise, if you want to start by asking if he has anyone special on his mind, and if he responds with the generic, "I don't know... who do YOU like?" you could just say, "well, I think it's pretty obvious", and smile. Like I said, just slip it in at an opportune moment, it would be much better and less awkward if you didn't spend too much time planning it out. Spontaneity is always an attribute!
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Never tell a guy you like them on the phone, always in person. Don't come right out and say that you like him but simply ask how he thinks of you. Ask if he thinks of you as like a sister, best friend, or someone who could possibly be his girlfriend.Make the scenary casual at school or something, you want to act natural.
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